A Nigerian lady has shared her thoughts on dating, claiming that the current economic situation is changing how many men approach relationships.
Speaking in a video circulating online, she said she has been single for four years despite receiving advances from men, noting that many of those who approach her are either married or significantly older.
She added that younger men who express interest often suggest casual arrangements rather than committed relationships, which she believes reflects the financial pressures many people are facing.
According to her, the economy has made it increasingly difficult to find partners who are ready for serious commitment, adding that “it takes the grace of God to see a good man now.”
Her words …
“I’ve been single for 4 good years now. I won’t say men don’t approach me, but the type of men that approach me are people’s husbands. Married men, older men. And I’m like what’s going on. I’m just in my twenties. Later I figured out that nothings wrong with me cause at some point I went for prayers. I’ve now noticed that a lot of men are going through a lot. This economy has turned men into something else. Nobody has time. Even the young ones that are coming to me, they’re like see let’s just do business. Nobody wants to be committed again. Some men have even turned to Agege. There’s this guy I know he looks completely normal but this guy’s pure Agege. The economy is really messing up with people. It takes the grace of God to see a good man now….”
Watch video below …
“The economy is too harsh and everybody is going through a lot” — Lady reveals why men are no longer asking women out 👀 pic.twitter.com/RVVeiylEvA
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