A lady has questioned why some men become distant from their partners whenever they are going through difficult situations instead of communicating about what they are experiencing.
She said some men suddenly become distant, nonchalant and withdrawn, leaving their partners confused and in the dark.
According to her, some later return to explain that they had been dealing with personal issues, while others gradually leave the relationship altogether.
She wondered whether involving their partners in their struggles could somehow make matters worse.
“Why’s it that some guys eh, when they’re in a relationship and they’re going through something, instead of them to like involve you as their partner and let you know this or that, they’ll start being distant? They’ll just leave you in the dark without like explaining anything.
“Small small they’ll leave you in the relationship. Sometimes maybe later some of them will return and be like, ‘I was going through something.’ But you’re clearly in a relationship with this person, you guys are cool, next thing attitude, nonchalance and start distancing, next thing they’ll leave you in that relationship.
“My question is why? Is it that if you involve the person something will happen or what?”
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