My ex-wife denies me access to my son but sends list of items he needs – Man laments, seeks advice

A Nigerian man has sought the advise of social media users regarding a custody and visitation battle he’s having with his estranged wife.

He revealed that they have a child together and he tried to visit the boy sometime last year, but she refused to allow him see the kid.

According to the distraught man, the woman explained that she did not like the way he (ex-hubby) talked rudely that’s why she denied him access.

He added that she later sent a list of items that their son needs despite denying him access, and he was not having it. He told her that he would not send any money and if she likes she can report him to the authorities.

The man wrote; “Sometime last year, I asked to see my son who was with my estranged wife (we have been separated for a year now). She made me wait outside for four hours and eventually I left without seeing him. Her reason: I didn’t ask her politely…. She didn’t like my tone… blah blah blah…

I left feeling really terrible but as man wey I be, I just hold myself. U won’t believe that the next day she sent me list of” things urgently needed by my son”… The same son she didn’t allow me see. I told her I will not send a dime to her and that she should report me to the authorities. You see some women… I don’t know what stuff they are made up off.”

Meanwhile, it was reported earlier that a Kenyan tech entrepreneur known as Alex Njenga recounted how he left his wife of eight years with their kids.

He said that he just walked out of the house on 31st of December 2021 and never returned home even though he was leaving behind all his properties.

Alex abandoned his two children, three bedroom house more over 10 million, and a car all to start afresh in a new place. According to him, the decision he took was born out of the desire to find peace of mind, as he noted that it is worth more than material things.

He wrote; “Boss, after 8 years of marriage, I left on 31st December 2021 for work and never came back. I left my 2 kids, my 3 bedroom house worth more than 10 million, my car and everything to start afresh. Sometimes, peace is worth leaving behind material things.”

But in reaction, his wife known as Diana called him out for abandoning his family even though he has an autistic child.

She said a friend at work came across her hubby’s tweet and brought it to her attention so he decided to reveal some more details which expose Alex as a ‘deadbeat father’

Diana wrote; I was busy at work then a mutual friend sent me this tweet. I had to come see for myself. You left an autistic daughter behind and are busy lying online? The guy has never checked on his kids. He has never even stopped by to see if the kids are well.

If its peace, he could be seeing his kids. But nothing. 1 year later. I have speech therapy to attend. Therapy for an autistic daughter. The guy is still bad mouthing us. Bana chill.