Marriage plans have been concluded but I no longer love my fiancée – Man cries out for advice

A Nigerian man set to tie the knot has cried out for help from the online community regarding his relationship dilemma.

He revealed that he has fallen out of love with his fiancée even as their wedding arrangements have been put in place after dating for years.

The man sought advice via a Facebook group and expressed sadness over the situation because he wants to leave her but also does not want to disappoint her family who welcomed him with open arms.

He stated repeatedly that the love he had for his fiancee has disappeared and he doesn’t feel like getting married again.

The post reads; “Please house help a brother. I’m dieing slowly! I started a relationship with this girl which I earlier love her and feel for her to the extent we are about getting married, now that we are about getting married, I don’t just know what it is that I don’t love her anymore, but I don’t actually want to disappoint her people because they received me happily, and I don’t want to disappoint my relatives and my pastor by disengaging this marriage.

Though everything has being put in place for the marriage to take place but deep in me, I don’t want to get married to her again. The love I have for her earlier had disappear and I don’t love her anymore, but I’m afraid telling her or her people and my pastor/ my relatives because I feel I might disappoint them. This is really killing me slowly inside. Please house, I’m dieing inside me what exactly should I do?? I need your advice.”

In other news…

A Nigerian man has narrated how he discovered that his fiancée was having an affair with a friend he allowed to stay with him.

The guy who lives with his babe said his friend visited him in Lagos and he agreed to accommodate him in his two-bedroom apartment. According to the heartbroken man, their wedding is coming up in August this year.

He said things were going smoothly for six months, but the situation took a new dimension when his company sent him to Cameroon on a getaway and he left his fiancee behind with his friend in the same house.

When he returned, he tried retrieving a number from his friend’s phone and that was when he saw a WhatsApp message from his wife-to-be’s number even though it was not saved.

He wrote; This my friend came to Lagos to stay with me as I am currently living in a 2bedroom flat with my girlfriend, someone I am planning to get married to by August this year, that’s even more reason why I got this apartment in the first place.

So this my friend called me that he wants to come and hustle small in Lagos, he has been staying with us for 6months now and everything good. I traveled for my company’s getaway to Cameroon, spent one month there. I got back on Friday and I noticed something wasn’t right. But I didn’t pay much attention.

This morning, I collected my friend’s phone to pick a number to call then one funny message came through from his WhatsApp and I opened it like who is this guy. I was still laughing and closed back the message when I noticed my wife’s number in the WhatsApp chat “unsaved” though. I moved slight and I opened the chat.

Please do you think the did has been done? Cos I have been at Obalende since morning thinking and wondering why I shouldn’t go to the third mainland bridge and just dive. This is a girl that I paid for 5years through the university. Engineering course btw.

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