A Nigerian woman has stirred reactions online after boldly describing herself as a “gold digger” while speaking about her expectations in relationships.
In a viral video, the lady stated that she intentionally ignores messages from men she believes cannot match her expensive lifestyle.
According to her, she enjoys luxury and does not want to struggle financially in a relationship.
She further explained that her tastes are costly and suggested that any man interested in dating her must be financially capable of meeting her standards.
Referring to herself as “very demure” and “very classy,” the woman openly embraced the “gold digger” label, insisting she has no problem being associated with it.
Her words …
“I am expensive. Oga, I don view your profile. I dey see your messages. I will not reply because I don’t want to suffer. I don’t want to reply your message because I like vanity. And if I tell you that baby give me 10 million Naira to buy this hair, you will tell me your papa don buy 1 million Naira hair for you before? You see the way I dey my dey? Very demure, very classy. I don view your profile guy, I dey see your messages. If we wan dey together I no know who go help who. Everything wey I wan dey expensive. Na gold-digger I be. You see that gold-digger, I be am. Gold-digger is me….”
Watch video below …
“I see all your messages but choose not to respond because I don’t want to suffer. I checked your profile and you don’t match what I want because everything I need is very expensive”
– Lady tells her suitors. pic.twitter.com/mIbpdzQlIP
— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) May 14, 2026