John Doe condemns men who give women money to prove they aren’t broke

A popular Twitter counselor and influencer, John Doe has said that it is stupid for a man to try to prove to a broke woman or girlfriend that he is not poor.

He created a scenario to drive home his message by pointing out how a lady would beg a man for N10k and say that she does not date broke men.

The relationship advisor explained that such a man will then give her N30,000 in a bid to prove to her that he has money.

John Doe, who shared his thoughts via Twitter noted that such man is an idiot and also stupid for thinking he has a girlfriend.

He wrote; “A lady that begs you for 10k, is telling you that she doesn’t date broke men.

And you’ll be giving her 30k, just to prove to her, that you’re not a broke man. And you’re feeling like you have a girlfriend? You’re a stupid man. Idiot! End.”

See the post:

A lady that begs you for 10k, is telling you that she doesn’t date broke men.

And you’ll be giving her 30k, just to prove to her, that you’re not a broke man.

And you’re feeling like you have a girlfriend?

You’re a stupid man.

Idiot!

End.

— Agba John Doe (@jon_d_doe) March 25, 2023

In other news, Nigerian media personality, Daddy Freeze, has revealed that he’s never given his mother money since he was born.

The Radio host stated this via his social media page as he stated that there’s no blessing that accompanies the gesture.

Daddy Freeze said there is no blessing in giving your rich parents money and one only gets blessings when they give to the poor.

According to the media personality, If an individual gives his or her parents money when they are struggling then they will be blessed.

He wrote; “There is no blessing in giving your rich parents money. The blessing is when you give to the poor. If your parents are struggling then you are blessed when you give them money or assist them. ‘Honor your father & mother’ should not be monetized!”

Freeze added; ‘Stop normalizing entitlement behavior.’

Akin Alabi commented; A mother that has a life will not even want you to prioritize her over your wife.

Freeze replied; Shey na my mama wey be Professor of Law, Vice Chancellor of ABUAD wan get time put mouth for my matter? Sometimes one week sef, my mama never pick my call.. My mother is too busy with her career and doing well financially. I have never, as a matter of fact, given my mother money before. The woman hold her side pieces.

When a social media user beautifulbubes wrote; Please give to your mother even if she’s richer than you. I love to give my mother, there’s this smile she gives me that always gladdens my heart. There’s Joy that comes with giving to our parents.

He added; no need… she has no need for it. Money will NEVER make my mother smile. She was not raised with Nigerian mentality. When I was younger, a politician in Ibadan came to see my mum and dropped some money with her PA. My mum drove to his house to return the money. The only money my mum values is the one she earned! Change your mentality.

Another IG user lovelymoodflowerz said; This is not an excuse for not giving your mother money. You that look hardheaded and troublesome like this must have given her financial hard time, abeg reciprocate her kindness.

But Freeze replied; My mother does not need my money. She never has and never will. You have to understand that poverty did not find permanent residence in every home. Some people are well off and don’t need your money. You can’t understand that when money is your god and poverty is your sibling.