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“You can’t be doing POS and say you want to marry my sister” – BLord

Nigerian businessman and crypto entrepreneur BLord has sparked reactions online after sharing his thoughts on marriage and the qualities he believes men should possess before starting a family.

Speaking during an interview at his residence, the businessman opened up on the kind of person he would approve of if someone wanted to marry his sister.

According to him, he would not support his sister marrying a man who is not financially established, stressing that marriage comes with responsibilities that require preparation.

BLord Speaks on Marriage Standards

During the interview, BLord used Point of Sale (POS) business as an example while explaining his point.

He said:

“You can’t be doing POS and say you want to come and marry my sister. I wouldn’t even allow. I can’t. I won’t allow that.

I wouldn’t even allow my sister to marry somebody that was in my shoe before I got married.”

He added that men should try to become financially stable before considering marriage because family life comes with long-term obligations.

“Marriage Has No Curriculum”

While explaining further, BLord admitted that marriage decisions are personal and outcomes can differ from one relationship to another.

He noted that although his wife accepted him and their decision worked out well, not every similar situation leads to the same result.

The billionaire said:  “It also depends on who she accepts. It’s your choice. My wife accepted. It was her choice. And today the choice was not wrong.

But some people might make a similar choice and the choice would be wrong.

You might marry a broke man, and when he gets rich, he will abandon you.

There is no curriculum to marriage. Everything just happens.”

Advises Men to Build Before Marriage

The businessman also encouraged men to work toward financial growth before getting married.

He said:

“Try to be up and doing before you get married because you have school fees to pay.”

BLord went on to reveal that he currently supports several people financially through educational assistance despite their parents being alive.

“I have so many people on my scholarship. It’s not supposed to be so.

I’m paying school fees for another man. Paying their school fees and their father is alive and I’m paying school fees for them.”

“Your Husband Should Reflect Your Future Children”

Sharing advice for women, BLord said people should think deeply before choosing a life partner.

He stated: “If you as a lady look at a man and say, ‘God, I don’t want my unborn children to be like this man,’ then I don’t think you should marry that man.

The man you want to marry, if you cannot wish your children to be like him, don’t marry them.”

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