Reality TV star, Doyinsola Anuoluwapo David better known as Doyin, has revealed that she does not see herself marrying a man who cannot hire domestic workers.
The podcaster said her ideal husband should be able to afford to hire domestic cook and cleaner because she will not do house chores when they get married.
Doyin opened up about her preference in a man while speaking in the latest episode of her podcast entitled; ‘Doyin’s Corner.’
She said; “I hope that I would have a cook when I get married. Not even hope, I would have a cook when I get married, definitely”.
“I will have somebody that will cook and clean. I’m not going to marry a man that cannot afford a cook. Because I’m going to be working. There’s no way I’m going to come back from work to cook and clean. That’s not going to happen.”
CorrectNG recalls that the Big Brother Naija ‘All Stars’ ex-contestant, Doyin said can never be a full-time housewife if she gets married.
The medical radiographer explained that the reason she can’t quit her job to focus on being a stay-at-home wife is because her spouse can change and stop catering for her and their kids.
According to her, men respect a financially independent wife more than an ordinary housewife. She also wondered what will happen to the family if her husband as the sole provider of the home unexpectedly passes away.
Doyin, known for her controversial views on social matters, emphasised that it is necessary for her to be working as well as her hubby because she takes sustainability very seriously.
She said; “I will never be a full-time housewife. Number one, people change. What if he [my future husband] changes? What if he meets another girl and then he stops catering for me and my kids?
“Number two, there’s this level of respect that comes with having your own money like when your partner knows you can provide. You don’t need to ask them for everything. You can handle certain things in the house. And I would really like to have that respect in my marriage.
“And third, there are certain things that are out of our control. What if he dies? God forbid. We don’t pray for that but what if he dies? How am I going to sustain myself and my kids? So, sustainability is a very big thing for me. At least, I would have a business.”
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