Lady cancels wedding because fiancé wanted her to stop giving her parents monthly allowance

A Nigerian lady has revealed that she called off her engagement few years ago because of an odd request her fiancé’s made that she was not comfortable with.

According to the woman known as @zynnnie, she used to send stipend to her parents every month, but her man was opposed to it and expressed displeasure.

When he objected to her continuing with the allowance she gives her parents, she decided to end the relationship.

Zynnnie explained that any man who disrespects her family or his own family is not the type of person she wants to be with.

She wrote; “I broke off an engagement with a man fews years ago cos he objected to the monthly stipend I send to my parents.

Mess with my family & you got to go!!! Mess with your own family & you got to go too. I don’t do well with unreasonable mistreatment of family members. Byyeeeee.”

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I broke off an engagement with a man fews years ago cos he objected to the monthly stipend I send to my parents. Mess with my family & you got to go!!! Mess with your own family & you got to go too. I don’t do well with unreasonable mistreatment of family members.Byyeeeee

— Ada Bekee (@zynnnie) January 19, 2023

Reacting, @Sandie_abeni said; Way to go, broke up with one because he said his mother was “yarning dust”. I didn’t need to think anything before he’ll come and tell my mother same.

If they don’t respect their family; they won’t respect yours too.

@kikelomolonge; Mess with your family and you got to go is the addendum I didn’t know I needed because if he has no regard for his family hu hu hu to you.

@vic_ace; So any objection = messing with your family? I totally support taking care of one’s family. However, that guy may have just dodged a financially draining bullet. After that engagement, the next thing could be the guy shouldering that responsibility for you.

@merrybelz; Stipend he’s suppose to add to. People are so funny. Which lips will you use to tell me to even stop?

@cadycxy; As far as its your money you are sending to your family. Why should anyone have a problem with that?.

In related news, a Nigerian man has gone online to seek advice on behalf of his friend who made a shocking discovery just a month to his wedding.

He said his friend just learnt from his fiancee that she did abortion once in the past and he is considering calling off the wedding which is fixed for January 2, 2023.

The man reportedly took his wife-to-be for test and it was confirmed that she can still conceive, however, he is not sure if he should still move forward with the marriage plans.

She did the abortion in 2018 and he said he loves her but wants to know if he is making the right decision to still marry her.

The post reads; ”My guy was asking, his wedding is slated for 5th January and his wife to be just told him last week Saturday that she has had an abortion once. She’s a wife material tho, womb is intact too cos they when to a gynecologist to after she made the confession to check and run checks on her. She’s good. But he was asking if I’d still carry on with the marriage if I was in his shoes.

I told him I’ll bring to PSB and screenshot reactions of people. Abeg make PSB people put mouth take help my guy. He said he loves her and nothing has changed, this was something she did since 2018.”