A young lady has sparked discussion online after advising women to stop assuming they are in a relationship with a man unless he clearly communicates his intentions.
In her viral post, she stated that daily calls, constant chats, or even falling asleep together on phone calls do not automatically mean a man has made things official.
According to her, until a man openly defines the relationship and expresses his feelings, a woman remains single, no matter how close the bond seems.
‘Stop mistaking attention for commitment,’ she adds
The lady emphasised that many women misinterpret consistency and affection for genuine commitment. She urged them to demand clarity instead of emotional assumptions.
She explained that communication is key in relationships, and that men are not obligated to define something they never intended to start.
Her post quickly gained traction as many agreed that emotional attachment without verbal confirmation often leads to confusion and heartbreak.
Public reactions
... drew hundreds of reactions from social media users who shared varying opinions on her statement.
One user wrote, “Make she dey talk,” suggesting the lady was simply stating the obvious, while another joked, “Make he use billboard post am naw.”
Another commenter noted, “They’ll make it clear you’re their woman but still cheat. Abeg do whatever pleases you,” while others debated whether men or women should initiate the relationship talk.
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“Until a man makes it clear that you’re is woman, you are single” — Lady pic.twitter.com/PnbB1FxhrT
— 𝒎𝒐𝒆. (@moe4dem) October 10, 2025