A Nigerian mother has sparked reactions online after sharing an unusual piece of advice for her daughter about testing a new boyfriend.
In a viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter), the woman explained that waiting two months after meeting a new partner before celebrating your birthday is a way to gauge how thoughtful and committed he is.
Speaking on the idea, she said:
“When you get a new boyfriend, your birthday will be two months after you meet him, no matter what time of the year you met him. That way you’ll see what he’s capable of doing.”
She explained that the approach can help a woman observe her partner’s effort, thoughtfulness, and willingness to celebrate important moments in the relationship.
The mother described the “two-month rule” as a subtle method for testing a man’s intentions and generosity early in a relationship.
Her advice quickly drew attention online, with many social media users reacting with amusement. While some described the idea as clever, others joked about how complicated dating has become.
One user wrote, “Ah! That’s one way to test him 😂.” Another commented, “I might try this… see if he’s serious or not.”
Whether seen as practical or playful, the suggestion has sparked conversations about modern dating strategies and how women sometimes assess a partner’s intentions.
Watch the video below…
“When you get a new boyfriend, your birthday will be two months after you meet him, no matter what time of the year you met him. That way you’ll see what he’s capable of doing.”
— Nigerian mother advising her daughter. pic.twitter.com/erAD5E04Me
— 𝐀𝐬𝐚𝐤𝐲𝐆𝐑𝐍 (@AsakyGRN) March 8, 2026