A Nigerian lady has made headlines after calling off her engagement two weeks to her court wedding, with reason emerging online.
The lady, identified as @Stephanie Uche on TikTok, shared the circumstances surrounding her decision to call off her engagement.
Lady Calls Off Engagement
According to Stephanie Uche, the court wedding outfits were ready and the documents were almost finalized.
In a follow-up video, she revealed some red flags her fiancé exhibited from the beginning of their relationship, which she initially mistook for love.
Describing her ex-fiancé as narcissist, she highlighted red flags which included excessive love-bombing, fast tracking , and constant involvement in her activities.
Her Words Below….
The first one is the famous love bombing. Because, I haven’t witnessed love bombing before, I never know how it looked like.
The second sign was fast-tracking.Everything we were doing was on 5X.In less than one week I had met almost everybody he knew.
Then, third sign was involving himself in everything I was doing. Literally, I was going for a job interview, and he followed me to the job interview.
Anything I wanted to do, this man was inserting himself. I didn’t know this was him trying to get control over me in all areas of my life.
Watch videos below……
@stephenieuche_ I called off my engagement just 2 weeks to my court wedding for the sake of my future self. Sis, don’t ignore the red flags. Don’t silence the Holy Spirit. Your future is too precious! This is only the beginning… Follow me as I share my journey of Love, Faith & walking in God’s will🌸
♬ original sound – Stephenie Uche
@stephenieuche_ The signs were there from the beginning, I guess I was too ignorant to notice. Sis, don’t ignore the red flags because you’re afraid to start over. I’m sharing this so you can recognize the signs I missed. Pay attention to patterns, not promises! #healingjourney #mystory #toxicrelationships #redflagsinrelationships #christiantiktok
♬ original sound – Stephenie Uche