A woman has sparked widespread debate on social media after questioning the cause of broken marriages in today’s generation.
In a post on X, she highlighted the differences between past and present relationships, noting that older couples often had no “talking stage” yet their marriages lasted.
She wrote: “Our parents had no talking stage and their marriages lasted. So what exactly are we doing wrong now?”
Mixed Reactions from Netizens
... quickly attracted mixed reactions, with many offering different perspectives on modern relationships.
Saleem argued: “Modern relationships often focus too much on finding perfection instead of building it together. Our parents prioritized commitment and patience over the endless options we see today.
“Constant distractions and high expectations make it harder for us to stay grounded. Maybe we should learn that lasting love is about choosing each other every single day.”
Sammy added: “Overwokeness and oversmartness is killing us we don’t know it.”
Queen Oma shared a more personal view, saying: “I do not know about others, my marriage will last to the end of enjoyment. Our parents did a whole lot of great work.
“Some of us have stopped parenting because there is nothing to show. Desires for material things have really dominated the present-day parents.
“Nobody wants to humble for another; everybody wants to be the boss. Whether we like it or not, husbands must still be respected, honored, and loved.”
Nadia pointed out: “They did. They’d known each other all their lives plus their parents did the work for them before.”
Meanwhile, TGO offered a blunt perspective: “You ladies are the issues, because our parents only got married without thinking about money first.”
The Debate Highlights a Generation Gap
The conversation reflects growing concerns about modern relationships, with many suggesting that high expectations, materialism, and changing social norms could be contributing to the rise in broken marriages.