A lady has sparked debate on social media after she advised women to marry men who have an “I don’t care” attitude.
In a viral video on X (formerly Twitter), the lady said that any woman who wants peace of mind should marry men “wey no too get sense.”
According to her, men with such an attitude are the best because they are not bothered by unnecessary things and do not like stress.
She explained that if a man with an “I don’t care” attitude returns from work and finds the house scattered, he will simply walk past, go into his room, and sleep without raising alarm, quarrelling, or causing a fight.
The lady also added that if such a man comes home and finds no food, he will quietly enter the kitchen, cook for himself and his wife, and everyone will eat and celebrate.
She further warned women to be careful of men who always want to win every argument, stressing that such men cannot give happiness in marriage.
Public reactions
The video has stirred mixed reactions online.
King Eze reacted by saying: “She also failed to include the part where ‘I don’t care men’ also finds it easy to sleep around, disappear from home, get drunk, beat up their wives just because they are ‘I don’t care men’.
“The greatest form of love is disciplinary love. Disciplinary love asks you questions, tells you to do better, trains you, prepares you for the times ahead, educates you, and strengthens you.
“Yes, it’s a difficult kind of love, but it’s the kind of love that makes you grow stronger, happier, and fulfilled.”
Next Door Engr wrote: “This one is talking out of frustration and for women who don’t want a man who cares. Or a relationship where they can cheat on their partner.”
Tuff Seed added: “Una go marry money ….una con see say the man wey una marry no get home training but him get money … he con marry you na now you con dey realize say this one get choko for head … no peace of mind 😂😂😂 you will learn the hard way.”
Osazee commented: “So she is giving advice and some girls without a responsible mother will take this advice until she hears that ‘I don’t care husband’ has another family elsewhere that he care about and demand certain quality standards from.”
Human wrote: “When did women start looking for peace mind in marriage. Na man need peace of mind. Woman get bothered and build the home. This generation just trying hard to rewrite history.”
Watch the video here…
“As a lady, if you want to be in a relationship, try to go for men who have an ‘I don’t care’ attitude, they will give you peace of mind.”
-Lady says. pic.twitter.com/lVVoxtAi3x
— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) October 3, 2025