A lady has sparked debate on social media after sending a blunt message to men about spending money on women.
In a post on her official X (formerly Twitter) handle, a lady identified as @Big_yemm boldly stated that women will not take men seriously if they do not spend money on them.
She further added that any man who does not make life easier for a woman cannot be taken seriously.
Her post read “Unfortunately, no woman will take you seriously if you don’t spend money or at least make her life easier.”
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However, @Big_yemm’s post has sparked debate on X (formerly Twitter) as many rejected the ideology while others supported it.
Mazi Chubby wrote: “We never hear things like this from elite and rich ladies. Always the kpangolo almajiri’s.”
Hollumuyiwa wrote: “It’s quite disgraceful to see how these Almajiris have reduced healthy relationships to mere transactions. Apart from Ethiopians, Nepalis and pillipinas, i don’t see other women prioritising money over real affection in a relationship. What our ladies are becoming is so sad to imagine.”
KC wrote: “It’s funny to see that many modern Nigerian women seem to reduce love to a transaction. They prioritize money and spending, which means that the highest bidders can easily win them over.
“In the end, it feels like everything is just about making a deal. If you expect them to take you seriously, it often comes down to providing financial support in exchange for s*x.”
Chiamaka wrote: “True, you can repeat that again and again and again. I mean, if you’re not going to be making my life easier then don’t be in my life. It’s that simple. Nobody is going to trade no woman is going to trade that piece of mind for anyone who’s going to make their life chaotic.”