Social media has been flooded with reactions after a Nigerian lady was left devastated when her boyfriend of nine years married another woman.
Videos from the scene showed the lady seated on a podium, visibly emotional, as the party turned chaotic.
Nine years of dating ends in heartbreak
According to posts shared online, the relationship spanned nearly a decade before the man chose to settle with another woman.
The incident shocked many observers, with some expressing sympathy for the lady and others questioning the reasons behind the breakup.
Witnesses noted that the lady, overwhelmed by the situation, was seen drinking and voicing her frustration as the celebration unfolded around her.
Debate over long-term relationships
The story quickly stirred conversations about loyalty, expectations, and the uncertainties of long-term relationships.
Some users argued that it was unfair to keep someone in a relationship for nearly a decade without commitment, while others suggested that compatibility and readiness for marriage may have influenced the man’s decision.
The case highlighted the growing debate on social media about how much time people should invest in relationships and what signs indicate when a partner may not be committed to marriage.
Public reactions
The incident drew hundreds of comments online.
thebigdammy wrote: “Men are evil!!!”
thenihlin said: “Why date a woman for 9 years and dump her.”
dahtgirl_ajex reacted: “9 years????? I support whatever the lady did.”
OloriOfOloris commented: “He’s wicked!”
kingjonah wrote: “Nahh it’s disheartening nau.”
Kevin3982599 commented: “She’s not good for marriage that’s why the guy left her and marry another girl… imagine what he’s doing there, a good woman won’t do that.”
drillerofficial said: “The society cares for no one I tell you.”
While some sympathised with the heartbroken lady, others defended the man’s choice, showing the divide in public opinion on long-term dating and marriage commitments.
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After 9 years of dating, her boyfriend married another woman 😭😬💔🙆♂️ pic.twitter.com/MK7cdtZwQm
— Number One🥇 (@numberonetweep) September 26, 2025