A Nigerian lady has stirred up heated debate online after claiming that men who neither drink alcohol nor smoke are usually womanizers.
Controversial take on men’s lifestyle
In her view, most men associate fun with drinking or smoking, so when a man avoids both habits, his main source of pleasure becomes women.
She explained that she wasn’t necessarily encouraging heavy drinking or smoking but insisted that at least a little wine or champagne should be part of a man’s lifestyle.
According to her, when a man completely avoids these, “trust me, women are his enjoyment, he enjoys on women’s bodies.”
The statement quickly went viral, sparking mixed reactions from men and women who either dismissed the claim outright or agreed based on personal experiences.
Men fire back
Several men on social media strongly disagreed with the lady’s stance, describing it as a baseless generalisation.
Some shared their personal lives as proof that abstaining from alcohol and smoking doesn’t automatically make one a womanizer.
One man noted that he neither smokes nor drinks but is happily committed to his partner, while another said he doesn’t even watch football, finding fulfilment instead in his career. Many felt the lady’s comments unfairly classified women as “vices” and reduced men’s self-control to stereotypes.
Others, however, admitted they had observed similar patterns in some men and argued that her statement, though controversial, might hold some truth in certain cases.
Social media reactions
... attracted hundreds of replies, with Nigerians weighing in from different angles.
Chiukwujjoke said: “Big lie… I dnt smoke, I dnt do alcohol, I’m not a womanizer.”
O. Han replied: “My husband does none, so sis stfu.”
Jesse added: “I don’t do none of that. I don’t even watch football too. Watching my trades play out is my fun.”
TegaEbi wrote: “The last minute of this video shows how women settle for less.”
BigKruz commented: “Lol it’s a lie.”
vee_talks2 agreed: “I agree oo.”
While some dismissed it as laughable, others argued it exposed double standards in relationships and how people judge men’s choices differently.
Watch the video below…
“A man who doesn’t do alcohol or smoke, is a womanizer” 🤔
Do you agree with her ?! pic.twitter.com/Qi6B5JUscZ
— Dami’ Adenuga (@DAMIADENUGA) September 19, 2025