A Nigerian man identified as Akinbajo Joseph has taken to social media to call out a woman identified as Mojisola Okunsanya after she stopped communicating with him following discussions about starting a serious relationship.
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In a complaint shared on Facebook, Joseph explained that he met Mojisola after she sent him a friend request. According to him, their conversations gradually became more serious, with both of them discussing their relationship status and the possibility of building a relationship that could eventually lead to marriage.
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Joseph, who said he is originally from Ijebu-Igbo but lives in Lagos, claimed that he invited Mojisola to visit him so he could introduce her to his family. He also said he planned to visit her in Ijebu-Ode to meet her mother, after she reportedly told him that her father was late.
According to Joseph, Mojisola later requested financial assistance for transportation from Ijebu-Ode to Lagos. He said he sent her ₦8,000 because he believed she intended to make the trip.
He further claimed that Mojisola informed him that she was at a motor park and preparing to travel. Joseph said he asked her to update him once she boarded a vehicle, but he received no further communication.
He explained that he tried calling and messaging her several times without success. He also claimed that he later discovered he could no longer access her Facebook profile normally and suspected that she had blocked or restricted him.
Joseph said he attempted to contact her using another person’s phone number, but she still did not answer. The situation, he explained, left him questioning what had happened after he sent the transportation money.
However, Joseph acknowledged that he could not independently establish why Mojisola stopped responding and called on the administrators of the dating group where they connected to investigate the matter fairly.
In his complaint, he requested that the administrators contact Mojisola, allow both parties to present evidence and take appropriate action if any wrongdoing was established.
Joseph also clarified that his complaint was not solely about the ₦8,000 but about the lack of communication after their travel arrangements had been discussed.
He appealed to the group administrators to handle the matter professionally and give Mojisola an opportunity to explain her side of the story.
He wrote: “Dear Esteemed Administrators,
I am writing to formally bring to your attention an incident involving a lady known to me as Okusanya mojisola, whom I met through your dating platform. I consider this matter serious because it concerns trust, honesty, accountability, and the integrity of a group established to help people find genuine relationships and potential life partners.
1. HOW WE MET AND HOW THE CONVERSATION DEVELOPED
I met Okusanya mojisola after she sent me a friend request on Facebook, which I accepted. Following our initial interaction, we began communicating and discussing matters relating to relationships and our personal lives. During our conversation, I asked her about her relationship status, and she informed me that she was single and searching.
Based on our discussions, I developed a genuine interest in her and decided to introduce myself properly. I explained what I do for a living and made my intentions known to her. I told her that I was interested in pursuing a serious relationship that could potentially lead to marriage, rather than engaging in a casual relationship without a clear direction.
I also explained that I am originally from Ijebu-igbo but currently based in Lagos. Since she told me that she lives in Ijebu-Ode, I suggested that she visit me in Lagos so that I could introduce her to my family. My intention was to demonstrate the seriousness of my intentions and give her the opportunity to meet my parents.
I further explained that, after she had met my family, I would also make arrangements to visit Ijebu-Ode to meet her mother, as she had informed me that her father was late. I believed that these steps would help us understand each other better and determine whether we could build a meaningful relationship with marriage as our ultimate goal.