A popular Nigerian music artist, Tiwa Savage, has said that she hasn’t had sex for the past three years.
In a podcast video circulating on social media, Tiwa Savage, while responding to a question by one of the hosts (a man) about her love life and when she realised she still wanted to love again, gave her answer.
In her response, she said she loves her son, her team and her friends. She went on to say she had been married before, and that she is no longer young at age 45.
The man asked her about other things she loves. Tiwa asked “like?” The man responded “Pen*s.”
At this point, Tiwa broke into laughter as she boldly said that she has stayed for over three years without having sex and also has no sex toys, stressing that sex is not something she really likes or is crazy about.
Her statement shocked one of the podcast hosts, a lady, who asked her again “wait, 365 days times 3?” Tiwa Savage responded yes.
To clarify her point, Tiwa Savage said that she has to be in love with someone before she can start thinking about sex.

Jokingly, she said maybe people should gift her some sex toys as her Christmas present.
Reactions to the video
Peter E wrote: “You people will just start lying in front of camera! Isn’t this the same woman that made a sex video and was making funny noises in the name of moaning? Now you don’t like sex like that? Come on “getat”!!”
Blessy wrote: “It’s quite possible. Not all women are deep into that. She shouldn’t be saying this out cos society won’t believe her base on her look and profession. Sorry even me😂, kind of hard to believe you.”
Mezie wrote: “Your sexual life is your private life. Please, keep it off camera. The internet is too broad for this kinda discussion. When last you slept with a man shouldn’t be a topic to be discussed on podcast. The societal decay keeps heightening by the day.”
Tobaaaaa wrote: “no sexually active woman engages in sex and just quit. It’s an addiction, and there’s no going back from it as soon as she starts 👍🏼. Dear women in 30s and 40s, sex is very important for your mental and physical health. Have sex vigorously, responsibly & consensually 👍🏼.”
Watch the video here…
I haven’t had s+x in almost three years and I don’t even use toys. — Singer Tiwa Savage
— Instablog9ja (@instablog9ja) September 23, 2025