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“How do I handle this?” – Man seeks advice after discovering secret chats between his wife and another man

A man has ignited intense discussion on social media after sharing a personal story about trust, secrecy, and a disputed food tray delivery involving his wife and mother-in-law.

The account, shared on X (formerly Twitter), has drawn widespread reactions as users weigh in on marriage, honesty, and emotional boundaries.

Online Chat That Sparked Suspicion

The man revealed that his worries began after he discovered his wife chatting with another man online.

He wrote: “Someone chatted with my wife and said he would like to send her a food tray.”

According to him, his wife initially denied the conversation until he provided proof.

He explained: “I confronted my wife, she deni!ed till I showed her the message I sent from her phone to mine.”

She later downplayed the issue, claiming the man was harmless.

... added: “She started saying it’s one pho!olish man on Facebook. That she told him she’s married.”

Apology and Temporary Peace

The husband said he chose forgiveness after his wife apologised.

He stated: “I let it slide. Because she apologized and promised never to indulge in such chats again.”

At that point, he believed the issue had ended.

A Surprise Visit and Startling Discovery

Trouble resurfaced days later when he bought snails as a surprise gift for his mother-in-law.

He recalled overhearing a disturbing comment on arrival, saying: “I heard her mom said don’t let this man out of your side o.”

Moments later, he walked in and met an unexpected scene.

He wrote: “Walking in, they were surprised and I met them with a large food tray. A cake and some wine.”

Birthday Claim Raises More Questions

The mother-in-law reportedly explained the situation by saying it was her birthday.

He recounted: “She said it’s her birthday so a friend sent the food tray.”

However, the man doubted the explanation and felt something was being hidden.

He insisted: “I knew it was a lie.”

Conflicting Stories at Home

When his wife later returned home, he questioned her again about the food tray.

He said: “When she got home, I asked her who sent the food tray to her mom she said it’s her mom friend.”

He added that she could not name the supposed friend, deepening his suspicion.

Anger, Pain, and a Cry for Help

The man admitted that the situation has taken an emotional toll on him.

He wrote: “Each time I see my wife there’s a certain anger burning inside me.”

Stressing his loyalty, he added: “For good ten years I have never che!ated on her.”

He questioned his wife’s actions, asking: “Why is she doing this to me? I provide her needs within my capacity.”

Should He Involve His Mother-in-Law?

Conflicted and hurt, the man turned to social media for guidance.

He asked: “How do I handle this situation because I know she’s lying and I don’t want to blow things out of proportion.”

He also questioned whether involving his mother-in-law would help or worsen the matter.

... has continued to generate strong reactions, with users offering varied advice on communication, trust, and resolving marital conflict.