A single mother has sparked reactions online after sharing her emotional dilemma about whether to give her ex-partner another chance despite his past actions.
The story was shared on Facebook by Branco Omolola Lily, where the woman opened up about her relationship history, struggles as a single parent, and the confusion she now faces.
Relationship History
According to her, her ex-partner initially abandoned her after she refused to terminate her first pregnancy. She went on to have their first child alone, but they later reconnected.
She revealed that during his brief return, he stayed with her for a short period but refused to take responsibility for their child, claiming financial difficulties.
After leaving again, he reportedly cut off communication.
Repeated Pattern and Second Pregnancy
Years later, the man resurfaced once again, apologizing and asking for another chance.
She welcomed him back into her life, but the same pattern repeated itself.
She became pregnant with their second child during this period, but he allegedly denied responsibility, accused her of infidelity, and abandoned her again.
Current Dilemma
Now raising two children on her own, the woman said the man has returned yet again, expressing love and asking to be part of her life.
Despite everything, she admitted she still has feelings for him and is unsure whether to accept him back.
She also revealed that she is currently being supported by another man, although she is not in love with him, which has added to her confusion.
In her words: “I’m a single mom of 2 boys currently. They are from same father. What happened was that my ex didn’t get married to me. He got me pregnant and asked for abortion which I refused so he left…
…we started talking again and I discovered am still in love with him… we stayed for 2 week and we were having sex but he refused spending on his son saying his broke… after two weeks he left and started ghosting me…
…after 4yrs he came back again… after 1 months of staying together he left but this time I was already pregnant for his second child… he said that I’m a prostitute and how will he believe the child is his…
…so that is how I have my two boys with him. The pr0blem now… is because my second child is 3 years old and this guy has been begging me again that he wants to come back to my life… I am confused and I don’t know what to do…
…should I give him a chance again to see if he have really changed… NB. I have a man taking care of me and my two kids currently but I’m not in love with him… I blocked his number before… but I want to reconcile with my husband…”
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