A man has expressed frustration over how hard it is to find a wife and the challenges of finding a girlfriend.
A social media user identified as FindingKan has stirred reactions on X (formerly Twitter) after sharing his thoughts about modern relationships, saying that to one to find a lady to date and finding a lady to marry are two different hustles.
Finding someone to marry is a different hustle
In his post, FindingKan prayed that his next relationship would be his last, noting that he is weary of relationship issues.
He wrote: “I honestly didn’t realize how difficult it is to FIND YOUR OWN PERSON until now that I’m looking forward to getting married.
“Bro!!! Finding someone to just date and finding someone to marry are two different hustles.
“I honestly want to make my next relationship my last because I actually don taya😂”
Mixed reactions trail his post
His post has sparked numerous reactions on social media, with many users sharing their personal experiences and opinions.
A user named Japheto said: “The last one I tried, that I said let me be a communicative expressive partner, I paid for it. As I dey like this, I am just hoping for the best.”
Olamide wrote: “I really thought she was gonna be the last, then she left. Now I don’t know what the future holds, I’m just tired.”
Kenny Chordz stated: “That’s why men who find d 1 in their hustling stage, should try and make it work, cause if u loose her and wait till ur financially stable, there may be no 1’s left just d available. U get what I mean.”
Tracey added: “I thought it’s only women facing this problem….its really really difficult and most of us are introvert with high family discipline. May God answer our secret prayers sha cause hmmmmm.”
Another user, El Royal, commented: “Omo I no find love again, na money I dey find like this. All this ladies never serious aswear down. Last last I will just be a lonely billionaire. 🔥💯”