A Nigerian bridal makeup artist has stirred conversations online after debunking the popular saying that “the way to a man’s heart is through his belly.”
In a trending video, she insisted that this age-old belief is a “lie from the pit of hell” and that men of today value far more than food in building lasting relationships.
“Be your man’s best friend”
The makeup artist, who often shares personal advice with her brides, explained that the real way to a man’s heart is for a woman to be her husband’s closest friend.
According to her, a successful marriage goes beyond romance and cooking. She advised women to become their partner’s confidant, so he feels safe enough to share problems, arguments, or family misunderstandings with her first before anyone else.
She emphasised that only men who are deserving should get this kind of loyalty, adding that a husband should see his wife not just as a lover but also as a sidekick, a companion, and a trusted partner.
“Empty his ball sac regularly”
The most controversial part of her message came when she declared that another secret to winning a man’s heart is to “empty his ball sac regularly.”
She explained that keeping a man sexually satisfied would make him eager to rush home, thereby strengthening the bond in the relationship.
Her blunt advice shocked some viewers, while others admitted that it was a raw but practical truth about marriage dynamics.
Social media reactions
The bold statement quickly spread across social media, with Nigerians weighing in on whether her advice was correct or not.
DonHenzzy_ hyped: “Oya nau”
EvergreenBlizzs asked: “Are they suppose to tell you this basics things has a married lady???? That want to genuinely stay in the marriage ??”
VickthorEdoh said: “And she fit no even get man sef. No one knows a way to a man’s heart even Sarah try ham with Abraham she fail”
Sadiq90s opined: “She is making sense but I no here respect your manoooo”
Abbeysmas101 said: “If you want to win a man’s heart, start with respect it’s the key that unlocks it.”
Watch the video below…
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