Nigerian comedian and skit maker, Zics Aloma has shared his strong views on financial readiness and marriage, insisting that a man without a stable source of income should have no business getting married.
Taking to Instagram, Zics Aloma emphasized that while society often pressures men to marry once they reach a certain age, financial readiness should always come first.
He shared his personal perspective, saying:
“I remember my mom calling me on my 34th birthday, asking when I would get married. Even though I’m financially stable, I still feel I’m not ready because there’s a kind of life I want to give myself, children, and wife.”
He also recounted a cautionary tale about a friend who repeatedly asked for financial help and rushed into marriage without being prepared to handle family responsibilities.
Zics Aloma explained that he eventually had to distance himself from this friend because he wasn’t ready to take responsibility as a family man.
“He sent me an invitation that he wanted to get married, saying marriage brings blessings. Soon after, he told me his wife was pregnant. I took on the responsibility, but at some point, I had to block him because he wasn’t ready to be responsible as a family man.”
The comedian stressed that every young man, especially Gen Z, should develop a skill early in life, not only as source of income, but also as a preparation for early marriage.
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