Video: Most Nigerian women believe it’s better to date married men – Chidera Slumflower

British-Nigerian writer and social campaigner, Chidera Eggerue popularly known as Chidera The Slumflower, has averred that most women in Nigeria believe dating married men is better than being with single guys.

The UK-based fashion blogger said that she’s lived in Nigeria long enough and by her observation, Nigerian women say that the best dating experience comes from those who re married.

According to Chidera, most ladies who are side chics to other women’s husband, have made the bold statement several times for her to conclude that most Nigerian women prefer dating married men.

She noted that she wishes it was not the case but it is unfortunate that what she staed is the reality of the dating scene in Nigeria.

Watch her speak below:

Ladies dating married men are doing so because they don’t want to be committed.
They don’t want to be responsible for anything or contribute.
They say single guys don’t know how to take care of ladies- They say this because they want everything for free. It’s disappointing? pic.twitter.com/6QwO6QsSGj

— President Eniola Daniel (@UnlimitedEniola) March 10, 2023

In other news, a Nigerian man identified as Akin has narrated how he caused his ex-girlfriend’s marriage to crash after she played him and stole his properties.

He shared his story online and revealed that he started an affair with his ex three months after he divorced his wife whom he had been with for five years.

According to the 37-year-old man, he was aware that she was married but that did not deter him instead he tried everything possible to make her leave her husband for him.

However, in June, Akin traveled to Abuja nd gave his married lover the keys to his house in case she wanted to visit in his absence.

To his utmost surprise, he returned to see that she had emptied his house and fled back to her matrimonial home.

He said he saw his properties in his ex-girlfriend’s home when she celebrated her birthday and a mutual friend posted photos n her status.

Akin said his ex posed with her husband in the images and he saw his TV set as wellas curtains that used to be in his house hanging.

The man said he then reported their love affair to her husband and sent proof to him which led to a separation.

In his words; I was married for 5 years before I got divorced from my wife. Three months later, I started dating one of my exes. Of course, she was married but I didn’t mind because I’ve always wanted to hit since we only dated then without dated then without doing.

Two months into our relationship, I started doing everything to get her divorced so she could be mine again. I had to attend to something in Abuja in June, and as usual, I gave her my house keys in case she needed to come while I was away.

My two weeks trip ended only for me to come back home and met my house completely empty. She carried all my belongings and fled. She celebrated her birthday last month and I stumbled upon her pictures on a mutual friend’s status. She posed with her husband and children with my TV and my curtains behind them. I found her husband’s contact, sent him evidence of our affairs and my stolen properties. They are now separated.